How to enjoy being single

"It was "self-giving"."

How I did it: Well, during the process of getting over an ended relationship (of almost 5 yrs), I did ALOT of internal/emotional cleansing.

I mostly cried (which helps heaps), prayed, ALOT of journaling, and interestingly enough...some yoga too.

It was like craving out a pumpkin...putting a smiley face on it and then placing a lit candle inside...yea, kinda like that.

Lessons & tips:

1. Embrace the hurt (think of a dark room where beautiful photos are developed)


2. Know and TRUST that all things work out for the greater good, and you are not your story...BE the Author 


3. Be grateful for who you are and who you are destined to become  


4. Most importantly: CONTINUE to LOVE (its all around you, embrace it and share it----THEN RECIEVE IT!) 

Resources:

1. Self


2. God 

It took me 2 years.

It made me Abit More Confident

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"An Outline"

(an angel)"What is the meaning of your name"?

Me: "Ooo, I don't know.."

(an angel)"You know on a print there is an outline...to create something great!...thats what 'Nikeisha' means...everything starts from an outline...so you HAVE TO DO IT..."

While sitting in 30th Street Station, I couldn't have imagined that God would be sitting next to me, as an Indian elderly woman who was attracted by my turquoise/silverplate dangle earrings from Avon. In those 20minutes or so she spoke life to me...make sure breakfast before leaving the house, help other people-God will give you 20fold, be satisfied with God has given you (story about her son wanting a son with his blue eyes), and I'm an outline for great things...[seek and ya SHALL IN DEED FIND-the Truth found me-The Truth is a part of me, always has been and ALWAYS WILL BE. Just don't lose sight. Miracles happen everyday! Just BELIEVE. The Truth has set me free!]

MAYA ANGELOU

'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ
that a man should have to seek Him first to find her.'

When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not shouting 'I'm clean livin''
I'm whispering 'I was lost, Now I'm found and forgiven.'

When I say... 'I am a Christian' I don't speak of this with pride.
I'm confessing that I stumble and need Christ to be my guide.

When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not trying to be strong.
I'm professing that I'm weak and need His strength to carry on.

When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not bragging of success.
I'm admitting I have failed and need God to clean my mess.

When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not claiming to be perfect,
My flaws are far too visible but, God believes I am worth it.

When I say... 'I am a Christian' I still feel the sting of pain..
I have my share of heartaches, so I call upon His name.

When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not holier than thou,
I'm just a simple sinner Who received God's good grace, somehow!
-MAYA ANGELOU

Today IS AWESOME!

I woke up this morning and I said to myself: "I feel good". Very powerful! "Thank you God".
The best is yet to come.

"Be STILL and KNOW that I AM GOD". Psalm 46:10

...Tao...

Tao:
Fill your bowl to the brim
and it will spill.
Keep sharpening your knife
and it will blunt.
Chase after money and security
and your heart will never unclench.
Care about people's approval
and you will be their prisoner.

Do your work, then step back.
The only path to serenity.

debramoorhead.com

The universe responds to your vibration. Your vibration is born from your beliefs and your beliefs are rooted in your subconscious. Here’s the good news: Your beliefs are nothing more than the thoughts you think over and over and over again. Control your thoughts, control your beliefs. Control your beliefs, control your vibration. Control your vibration, control your experience. Control your experience, get what you desire.
-Debra Moorhead
http://www.debramoorhead.com/blog/?p=291

...A 3-month arc...

...a three-month arc

“The first three months should be about two things, having fun and getting to know the other person. If at any time during those three months, you ask yourself, ‘Where is this going?’ stop and instead ask yourself, ‘Am I having fun, am I getting closer to this person?’ That will give you much more information, because in the first three months, you really don’t know where it’s going, nor should you. Don’t make any major decisions during those first three months.”

-Cooper Lawrence, a relationship expert and author of The Cult of Perfection: Make Peace With Your Inner Overachiever.

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